Media Kit and Bio's

Below are some biographies that you can use as well as details about Paul and his work...

Paul achieves powerful results by:

  • Helping couples to stop arguing and fighting, so they can re-connect and completely transform their relationships—for good!
  • Helping people to overcome their personal challenges and take back their power, so they can eradicate feelings of anxiety, anger, and depression
  • Providing powerful strategies that help couples communicate in ways that bring them closer, rather than pushing them apart
  • Showing people how to change their mindset to prevent the build-up of resentment, frustration and other factors that lead to relationship issues and potential breakups!
  • Helping people to take back their power  and enjoy their life more fully!
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A Really Short Bio

Paul McNiff is a Degree qualified Psychotherapist in Private practice and the author of the book: "Fix Your Relationship For Good". Paul works with couples, individuals, groups, and families to help them to get past their challenges—for good—so they can have lives and relationships that they love.

Paul has also created a powerful new approach to couple therapy and communication, which has proven to seamlessly eradicate years of resentment for couples and help them completely transform their relationships and their connection—fast!

The Transformation is Massive!

Hey Paul, Just a quick note to say a huge THANK YOU!!!

Sarah and I are sitting on the back verandah, having a glass of wine and talking about how much our relationship and subsequent lives have improved since seeing you!

We’ll be in touch in a couple of months to have another appointment but we can honestly say we haven’t been this happy in years; the transformation is massive!

Huge respect and feel free to use us a reference!

Matthew & sarah

Paul with his client: Rob (Millsy) Mills

Paul's approach is very different to others

Relationship Help

Paul understands that the problems that couples talk about... and the things they typically fight about, are really just surface issues or presenting problems. Many couples are not arguing about the true problem! But unfortunately, many people don't understand what the 'REAL' underlying issue is... But until they focus directly on this underlying issue, nothing will shift! Paul's approach deals directly with the underlying issues to create almost instant, yet lasting relationship change for couples.

Anxiety and Depression

Paul doesn't believe that people "have anxiety", but instead that everyone has "a relationship with anxiety". He sees anxiety is an important, almost crucial part of our life. Anxiety is not the problem. The problem is that when people try to fix or avoid anxiety , they generally start to feel even worse, instead of better. So Paul's approach is not about fixing anxiety... It's about changing your relationship with it instead! And the good news; this is easy to change... when you now how!

No More Conundrums

Many of the things couples do to try to keep their relationship safe, or to try to deal with existing problems, often make things even worse; creating the actual problem they're trying to fix.  Once they discover what they're that is actually causing this, couples are able to take back their power and find balance... They're able to work through things in a very different way: a way that not only prevents future issues, but helps them truly get past years of built-up resentment and frustration... for good!

Anxiety is the Relationship Bully

Paul sees anxiety and relationship issues as intrinsically linked. His approach is not about keeping the peace and avoiding arguments, because this just makes things worse. Paul says that the real issue underneath nearly every emotional or psychological problem faced by anyone is anxiety. Anxiety is a Bully! And until you deal directly... and effectively with anxiety and how it is bullying you, nothing will change. But it's not about confronting the bully head on... Paul's approach makes this seamless and easy...

Paul with his client: Casey Donovan

Contact Paul...

Paul is available for press and media comment about relationships, anxiety and communication. He's also available for keynote speeches, presentations and training, as well as consulting around relationship challenges,
both personal and business... 

Full name: Paul McNiff 

Email address: contact@paulmcniff.com 

Author website: paulmcniff.com 

Facebook: @paulmcniff.author 

Instagram: @paul_mcniff

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  • Are you sick of struggling in your relationship and wondering if it's even possible to fix things?
  • Do you want to communicate better with your partner... in a way that brings you closer together, rather than creating more arguments and distance?
  • How would you like to find out the secret to re-connecting and working as a loving team again? 

In "Fix Your Relationship For Good", Paul McNiff shows you the REAL reasons why you're struggling... and also the REAL reasons why your attempts to stop struggling are unlikely to work. (And believe me; these will surprise you!) 

But it doesn't stop there; in Fix Your Relationship For Good you will also find out exactly what you CAN do, step-by-step, to quickly and easily change your own approach and, by doing that, seamlessly re-connect with your partner in a way that you never thought was possible.

TV & Print Media

The Bigger Things... with Antonia Kidman

Early on in his career, Paul appeared as a featured expert on The Bigger Things with Antonia Kidman W Channel, FOXTEL Digital, in an episode about how people reveal hidden secrets and information to their partners, parents and friends. 

Paul with Sarah Morrison
Actor, Singer, Performer:
Mama Mia, Come From Away, Miss Saigon

Sunshine Coast Daily: Newspaper Article

Paul was a featured expert in an article in the Sunshine Coast Daily Newspaper about the link between Christmas and the New Year and relationship challenges and breakdowns..

Article:
The Coca-Cola Journey

Paul was approached to write an article as part of the Coco-Cola Journey about five ways to relax and de-stress in the workplace

Some counsellors specialise in one particular theory or model and apply it to all of the people they work with. But a few decades of hands-on experience have shown me that... while one model or approach might work for one client, it won't necessarily work for others.

I therefore draw from a several modalities to put together an approach that will work specifically for you and your situation. This way we can move through your concerns, and get past the challenges, as swiftly as possible... to help you create a satisfying and enjoyable life.

Some counsellors specialise in one particular theory or model and apply it to all of the people they work with. But a few decades of hands-on experience have shown me that... while one model or approach might work for one client, it won't necessarily work for others.

I therefore draw from a several modalities to put together an approach that will work specifically for you and your situation. This way we can move through your concerns, and get past the challenges, as swiftly as possible... to help you create a satisfying and enjoyable life.

How would you like to leave the past behind and step into a more satisfying and enjoyable life? 

Here's what others have said...

A long time and very close friend of mine made a comment on the weekend about how much of a change he had seen in me. I told him that therapy for me has been the most wonderful experiences of my life. I cannot articulate correctly how I am presently feeling. I asked him how can someone repay their therapist. He just said” Therapy is a beautiful thing and that you cannot repay something that is priceless”. All I can say is “THANK YOU PAUL MCNIFF” you are indeed a special person.

Mike K

I am so glad I found Paul, he has taken me on a journey where I feel I’ve come a long way since our first meeting and have learnt so much about myself along the way.

With his expertise and counselling, he has helped me break through the emotional barriers that were holding me back, releasing a new confidence on how I view the world and myself.

After years of negative emotional patterns that were so deeply ingrained I have learnt new skills. I now have the ability to be happy and get the fun out of life.

Jenny M

Paul, it’s been some time since we spoke. But I wanted to tell you that life has never been better! I feel so incredibly empowered by the work we did. Even after all this time, I am so much more focused, calm, motivated and generally fantastic. Thank you so much….

Catherine J